Spoiler Alert: It looks like Mike Berk and fiancée Ximena's relationship has fizzled since they first met up. I guess having “gross” tendencies can really turn someone off even if they’re paying the bills. So let's take a look at what the story is behind how Mike and Ximena met.
It seems that Gino Palazzolo is not the only 90 Day cast member on that’s being accused of paying for women’s attention. Ximena, who dated Mike says she met him on a cam site but eventually took their transactional situation (relationship) into real life.
So what is a camgirl? Let’s find out
Camgirls are female models that use live videos to broadcast themselves over the internet. They are involved in the adult industry and earn money by performing explicit adult acts or whatever entertainment service the client pays for. These performances are done on webcams from the privacy of the “models” home or studio to an audience for entertainment purposes.
Lets try to take a look at this from Mike’s point of view if we can. So this 34 year old man that has never had a girlfriend is finally getting some play time in the game of love with Ximena. Ximena shows this very adult man the attention he’s been craving for quite some time. Mike could be looking at this situation for more than what it really is (a monetary transaction).
Mike walked into the adult world green and got taken for he’s green without understand that’s all it was. There’s nothing wrong with adult entertainment but that’s all it is (entertainment). It’s like walking into a casino, you’re going in for fun but you have to live after having this experience. Put a cap on the spending before stepping foot in the place and make sure to check the time on your phone because there isn’t one in the place. They don’t have clocks in the casino as a psychological trick to keep you playing and get lost in the fancy of it all. In other words check in with realty every now and then when playing with fantasies. Whether it’s fantasies of love, money or power; check in with realty.
These are good lessons Mike have given to us all.
Note to self: Ground yourself at least once a day.
I would like to thank TLC (The Learning Channel) for more great life lessons learned through other peoples lives.
Now that we took a look at Mike and one way to see he’s situation let’s move on to Ximena. I’m not excusing Ximena for her actions. Staying out all night while your so called man is at your house in a foreign county that he can barely navigate in; that is not good (entertainment). I guess that was Ximena’s way of telling Mike the gig is up. It seems Ximena was not to happy with not getting what she wanted out of Mike. Looking to upgrade her modeling career with breast enhancement and tummy surgery Mike looked to the people that cared about his wellbeing for advice on if he should pay for the surgeries. It seems as consensus was a hard NO and I looks as those Mike listened to the advice leaving Ximena to not want to perform any longer.
But there could always be an argument that Ximena was turned off by Mikes “gross” bodily functions that he had no problem putting on display for anyone around him. Ximena did make it known she was not feeling Mike’s unattractive behaviors. Whatever the reason for the break down in their relationship it looks like they were building a foundation on sandy grounds (quicksand).
I am looking forward to the next episode to see how these two behave together. Do they have what it takes for one another to forge ahead as a couple; that can learn from their past mistakes and make it work?
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